We all know that one of the benefits of an Arrangement is that you’re starting at the beginning of your relationship with honesty and a mutual understanding. Sometimes, that understanding is that you’re not the only Sugar Baby in your Sugar Daddy’s life.
In some cases, you’ll know that you’re not the only one from the beginning – it’s part of the deal that you make with your SD. In other cases, you may get involved with a Sugar Daddy who tells you that there are areas of his life he’s not interested in sharing. That may, or may not, mean he’s having a relationship with other women.
Regardless of how you learn that your Daddy isn’t a one-woman guy, don’t get freaked. Sharing is caring, and unless you specifically made an Arrangement that spelled out monogamy, all is fair in love and the Sugar Bowl!
Take a professional approach and don’t undermine your relationship by turning into a jealous girl. It’s unattractive and undoubtedly not going to enhance your relationship. If anything, use that energy as an opportunity to be your best self – get your hair and nails done and get that expensive perfume on your SD’s dime – then show him how good it smells in nothing but stilettos! He definitely won’t be thinking of anyone else while he’s with you!
Whatever you do, don’t forget your value and your uniqueness. Your SD chose you for a reason, as did all your other Sugar Daddies.. because you are amazingly you. Celebrate and flaunt that individuality. Remember your best assets and play them up with confidence – nothing is sexier! SD’s are looking for a woman who knows herself, takes pride in her appearance and knowledge and who are looking to have a mutually satisfying relationship.
And, unless it’s specific to your Arrangement, what’s good for the goose, as they say, is good for the gander. Perhaps you never considered it, but maybe the door is open for your to have more than one Daddy.. think that one through!
And definitely don’t become intimidated by another Sister. Chances are, you’d get along well and hey.. if he’s into it.. maybe your SD will introduce you.. sometimes more is merrier!