When you started thinking about Sugar Dating, what were your goals? If you are like most Sugar Babies, you had big dreams for a big allowance and a great Sugar Daddy. Hopefully, you have met your goals and you have landed a Big Daddy or a Sugar Daddy who can give you everything you need and want from your Arrangement. If not, it’s time to re-evaluate, Sugar!
Dream Big, Demand Better
YOU are the person who decides how much you are worth. How much are your time, energy, and company worth? What do you want out of your Arrangement? Don’t go into the Sugar Bowl undervaluing yourself or feeling shy about compensation. Do you want cash? Gifts? Vacations? Rent? Tuition? A house? A business? Shoes? Clothes? A penthouse? Cars? The sky is the limit, Sweetness because, in the Sugar Bowl, all of this is at your fingertips. But YOU have to be the one to ask for it.
Go Big or Go Home
Maybe you are a Baby who is looking for just a little help, but a whole lot of romance and fun. If that is you, FANTASTIC! But if you are a Baby who is looking for a whole lot of the Bling and BCBG, then listen up! YOU DECIDE what you are going to get! This is not a job interview with a set pay scale that varies a bit from workplace to workplace. In the Sugar World, you are going to find POT SDs with all kinds of budgets. Some will want very little companionship or just a date a few times a year or a travel companion. Some want someone to talk to. And some want it all. Conversely, some have a little to give and are willing to pay a bill or two or take you shopping now and then. And some have it alllll to give. Romance, money, fun, property, capital, cars, and lavish vacations. Don’t go for an SD who wants a lot from you with little in return. That isn’t what Sugar Dating is about. This is not a charity! You are worth every date, dinner, and dime!
Walk into every meeting with a POT SD as a confident, self-assured SB who knows what she wants, knows what she is worth, and has no trouble demanding it. The way you carry yourself, ask for what you want, and tell him what you need will speak for itself. Be cash confident. If you are not looking for a Sugar Arrangement for companionship, then you are looking for an Arrangement for compensation. Be confident and assertive and go after everything you want!