Being a Sugar Baby has many perks – the lifestyle, travel, gifts, glamour, parties, and amazing men… But what if your Daddy is the jealous type? A little bit can be flattering, any more than that is annoying and sometimes a deal breaker. How do you deal with jealousy when it rears its ugly head in your otherwise perfect Arrangement?
Don’t Play Games
Try to avoid creating any sticky situations in the first place. Trying to make him jealous or insecure to make him want you more is not a fun game for anyone. Don’t flirt with other men or look for other POT Daddies when you are with him. Don’t talk about past relationships with him in detail. He doesn’t need to know how handsome or successful your previous boyfriends or SDs are or about your previous sex life. If you have multiple Sugar Daddies, don’t discuss any details with him. Stay in the present, in this Arrangement. Act like an Angel Baby, not an amateur.
Let him know how great he is and how much you love being his Sugar Baby. Thank him often for the nice things he does for you and show him lots of affection. Leave no doubt in his mind that he is the only one you are thinking of and want to be with. Let him know he is good looking and great in bed.
Talk About It
If he is showing a level of jealousy that you cannot deal with, you need to talk to him about it. Let him know that you love being his SB, but you can’t deal with the jealousy and that it’s something he needs to work out- that it is putting a damper on the fun that you are having and the trust in the relationship.
A little jealousy may be normal. You are a hot, young, fun woman. But if it is something more, pay attention. We all know the type. They seem enamored and smitten at first, but it quickly evolves into something more like obsession, anger, jealousy, and paranoia. You go from feeling flattered and coveted to feeling crowded and disrespected. Instead of outings being fun you are accused of looking at other men. A romantic night in becomes emotional and tense because he wants to know who you’re thinking about. Ladies, this is the kind of man no conversation or building up is going to fix. Don’t be the fixer. Walk away. There are a ton of amazing men in the Sugar Bowl who would love to be your SD and who will respect you.