Keeping things Sweet in your Sugar Dating Arrangement is the most important job for a good Sugar Baby. It’s in your best interest to take that to heart and make your SD feel like the only man in the world. After all, a happy Sugar Daddy is more likely to be a long-term Daddy. A satisfied SD is also more likely to be generous in the relationship AND with his pocketbook. How do you keep him feeling like Big Daddy? Read on!
First things first… put HIM first!
Your Sugar Daddy should be your priority, especially if this is a committed and Exclusive Arrangement. His life is extremely busy and it will be easier for him if you’re able to arrange your schedule around his. If he asks to meet last minute because he needs a break, misses you, or wants some playtime and fun, make it happen. He is rewarding you generously for your time, so make sure you are prioritizing your time for HIM. If you have another job but your SD is your primary income provider, don’t put your other jobs over him. He needs to know he is number one in your world (and you need to pay your bills).
Save the date!
Set fixed dates to meet your Sugar Daddy and stick with that schedule. Doing so will make it easier to carry out your day to day life without sacrificing time with your Daddy. If he wants to meet two or three days per week, set aside three to be safe. Try to accommodate last minute changes if he asks. If he increases your allowance, free up more time for him as he obviously wants to spend more time with you and loves having you as his Sugar Baby. Don’t skimp on face time- if you’re dreading dates with him it’s time to end it. It’s not fair to either of you to stick with it for the money while trying to avoid him.
Men love to be touched. In fact, it’s one huge reason men feel unhappy in relationships. They equate physical affection with love so it’s important you go out of your way to be loving. Hold his hand, rub his shoulders, squeeze his butt, unzip his pants if you’re feeling naughty! If you’re in a sexual arrangement, be the one to initiate sex and when you’re intimate, cuddle him afterward. Don’t make him feel like sex is a chore or a part of your “job”. Touch him often outside of sex so he knows you love being close to him and can’t keep your hands off.
Be his dream girl. If he loves blowjobs, surprise him while he’s driving. If you’re out in public, get risqué and take him to the bathroom for a quickie. Wear sexy clothing and lingerie to tease and excite him with. Be open in your sexual relationship with him and listen to his wants and needs. Share yours with him. Share your fantasies and try to fulfill his. As much as a man loves to be pleased, he also gets off on knowing that he can please you- it makes him feel sexy and powerful. An exciting and fulfilling sex life with him is a HUGE key to happiness and longevity.
Keep it Light
Your relationship with him may be close, but it’s still a different dynamic than most long-term relationships. Don’t get so comfortable with him that he becomes the catch all for your bad days and insecurities. Don’t nag, whine, complain, or fish for compliments. He wants a Baby who is sexy, confident, and fun to be with. It’s okay to talk about your life and share your problems with him, but don’t let it set the tone for the relationship. Ex-boyfriend complaints, drama with friends, and the size of your thighs are all topics better suited for your best friend. This truly goes for any relationship as everyone needs a bigger support system than just their romantic partner.
Fall for him
In the Sugar Bowl it may be easy to see your Sugar Daddy as a paycheck or provider and nothing more. After all, you got into this for the lifestyle, not a life-long relationship. But the real secret is to find a POT SD you have chemistry with and yourself to fall in love with him. Take the time to really get to know him and to show him who you are. Despite the goals getting into this kind of relationship, he is still a genuine person who really does want to spend time with you, get to know you, and help you in your life. If he was only after sex, there are easier and cheaper ways to do that! Make the most of your time and make it a REAL experience for both of you.
Take these tips to heart- make him a priority, set aside time just for him, show him physical affection, keep the tone light, and allow yourself to fall for him. These really are the best ways for you to keep him happy, keep you happy, and have a successful Arrangement!